Few young role models: finding your own path
Few people your age and in your situation have taken a path you can picture? Questions to reflect on, mentoring and what coaching can offer here.
You see few people of your age and in your situation who have taken a path you could imagine for yourself.
How it can show up
- The successful people you hear about started from very different conditions than you.
- Around you, you know no one who has taken the path you imagine.
- You don't know how to find people you could learn from.
- Without an example you find it hard to believe in your plan.
Questions for you
There are no right answers. Take the question that stays with you.
- Whose path inspires you, even if it only partly fits yours?
- Where could you meet people who are two or three steps further than you?
- In what way can you already be an example for others today?
- Which question would you ask a role model if you had the chance?
What coaching can do
Coaching can help you look for role models deliberately, also in parts rather than as a complete package, and turn that into your own steps.
When other help fits better
Mentoring programmes, alumni networks and professional communities connect you with people who have taken a similar path.
If it is too much right now
Coaching is not psychotherapy and not a crisis service. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact the emergency services where you are right away, or a crisis service near you.
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This page describes experiences many people share. It is not a diagnosis and does not replace advice from a doctor or psychotherapist.