Feeling far from God: living with spiritual guilt

Further from your faith than before, or feeling you don't live up to it? Questions to reflect on and who can help with spiritual guilt.

Meaning and spirituality

You feel further from your faith than before, or feel you are not living up to it. That weighs on you.

How it can show up

  • Prayer or religious practice is harder for you than it used to be.
  • You feel guilty for not living up to your faith.
  • You miss the closeness you once felt.
  • You talk to no one about your doubts.

Questions for you

There are no right answers. Take the question that stays with you.

  • When did you last feel close to your faith?
  • What has changed in your life since then?
  • Which religious adviser could you talk to openly?
  • What would be a small step that could bring you peace again?

What coaching can do

Religious guidance is not part of my coaching.

When other help fits better

Talking to a religious adviser you trust can help most here. If guilt is with you all the time or comes with low mood, also talk to a licensed psychotherapist.

If it is too much right now

Coaching is not psychotherapy and not a crisis service. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact the emergency services where you are right away, or a crisis service near you.

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This page describes experiences many people share. It is not a diagnosis and does not replace advice from a doctor or psychotherapist.

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